What encourages a kid more than his or her parents' approval? The right word at the right time can strengthen the bond that helps keep your child away from drugs. Emphasize the things your teen does right and restrain the urge to be critical.
Reward good behavior consistently and immediately. Expressions of love, appreciation and thanks go a long way. Even kids who think themselves too old for hugs will appreciate a pat on the back or a special treat.
Accentuate the positive. Emphasize the things your teen does right. Rein in the urge to be critical. Affection and respect - making your child feel good about himself - will reinforce good (and change bad) behavior far more successfully than embarrassment or uneasiness.
Source: The National Youth Anti-Drug Media Campaign's Behavior Change Expert Panel.
