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"My Teen Raided the Medicine Cabinet"

A father confronts his son after he learns his son had been taking his prescription pain medication and giving it to students at school. Advice on addressing and preventing prescription and over-the-counter drug abuse.

What the Experts Say

Prescription drug abuse among teens is a growing and serious problem that many parents are unaware of.  Here’s some important advice:

  • Get the facts. More teens abuse prescription drugs than any illicit drug except marijuana. In 2006, more than 2.1 million teens ages 12 to 17 reported abusing prescription drugs.
  • The most commonly abused prescription medications are painkillers, like OxyContin® or Vicodin®. These produce sensations of euphoria and pleasure and are highly addictive. They can easily lead to overdose when crushed and snorted or mixed with other drugs, such as alcohol.
  • Depressants, such as Valium® or Xanax®, are also commonly abused by teens. These drugs make users feel calm and reduce anxiety and tension. They are addictive and can be deadly when used in combination with prescription pain medications, some over-the-counter (OTC) cold and allergy drugs, or alcohol.
  • In addition, stimulants, such as medications for ADD and ADHD – Ritalin® and Adderall® --are being abused by many teens to “help study better” in response to excessive pressure to do well in school or to suppress appetite for weight loss.  These medications can be addictive, cause feelings of fear or paranoia and lead to serious health problems.
  • Some OTC medications, such as cough medications containing dextromethorphan, are also abused by teenagers.
  • Talk to your teens about the risks, and be specific.Tell them that taking prescription or OTC drugs without a doctor’s approval and supervision can be a dangerous — even deadly — decision. Dispel the myth that these drugs are less harmful than street drugs because they are available through a doctor or at the local drug store.
  • Take inventory in your own home and other homes your teen has access to, such as grandma’s or other relatives’. Lock up medications or put them in a safe place where your kids or their friends can’t access them. Move your OTC medications to a safe place as well. Just as you do for alcohol, make a note of the levels in each bottle. Do the same at relatives’ homes, especially older relatives, who often take painkillers and would be less likely to notice a few pills missing.
  • Coordinate with the parents of your teen’s friends to make sure access to prescription and OTC drugs is restricted in their homes, as well.
  • Be familiar with the signs of abuse:  Slurred speech, staggering walk, sweating, nausea, vomiting, numbness of extremities, dilated pupils, drowsiness and dizziness.
  • Understand why teens abuse prescription and OTC drugs. People abuse drugs because drugs change the way they feel. Many teens point to personal or family-related stress as a major reason, including stress around family life and relationships; academic competition; trying to fit in; the balance between school work, grades, and extracurricular activities like sports and clubs; and the desire to have the “ideal” physical appearance.
  • Be vigilant about your teen’s activities online. Anyone who has a computer and a credit card can order prescription drugs online even if they never see a doctor or get a written prescription. Routinely monitor the Web sites your teen has visited and track purchases made with a credit card. Be aware of what is mailed to your home.
  • Set a good example. Don’t abuse or share prescription drugs or over-the-counter medications.
  • If you suspect your teen is using drugs, take action. Talk to your teen, reiterate your rules and expectations and enforce consequences. To get help, contact your teen's school counselor, pediatrician or family physician or call the National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information at 1-800-662-HELP for a listing of treatment centers in your area. You can also find information online at http://dasis3.samhsa.gov.

The Transcript

Michael’s Dad just got a call from his son’s school. He’d been caught giving out prescription pain relievers to kids at school.  His father immediately checked the medicine cabinet and realized that Michael had been taking pills from a prescription he’d received after recent surgery.

DAD: Michael, I need to talk to you about something serious. Your principal called and told me what happened today.

MICHAEL: Oh.

DAD: I’m really disappointed, and concerned. You’ve been taking pills from my prescription bottle!

MICHAEL: Dad, those pills are not that big of a deal. They just help take the edge off a little. We were just having a little fun.

DAD: What do you mean, they’re no big deal? Why are kids using them?  Are you taking them at school?

MICHAEL: They’re for partying.  It’s so boring around here and they just make things more interesting. Mostly kids take them after school or on the weekends or just to stay alert while studying. Some kids crush the tablet, snort it or dilute a pill in water to inject it. But it’s not like they’re doing heroin! 

DAD: Michael, those pills are serious. That’s why you can only get them with a doctor’s prescription. They can be really dangerous, especially for a teenager.  You could do some very real damage to your body or your brain, even overdose.  These drugs are also highly addictive! And what if something happened to one of the kids you gave pills to?

MICHAEL: Nothing would happen. Kids at school use those pills all the time.

DAD: That doesn’t mean they’re safe. I want you to tell me how much you’ve been taking. And I want you to tell me the truth.

MICHAEL: I only took them a few times. I saw them in the medicine cabinet. I was stressed out and needed to relax. It’s not like I’m addicted or anything.

DAD: Well, I want you to see someone to make sure there’s no problem. I made an appointment with a counselor so you can get a substance abuse assessment.

MICHAEL: What?  Dad, you’re totally overreacting.

DAD: I don’t think so. I want to be sure everything is under control, so you’ll be going tomorrow. Also, I want to reiterate that drug use is absolutely not permitted in this family. And this includes misusing prescription drugs!

MICHAEL: I can’t believe you think I’m some kind of druggie, just because I took a few pills!

DAD: Michael, I don’t think that. I just want to make sure we don’t have a more serious problem here.  I’m concerned that you were taking the pills, but also that you gave them to other students. That was a really bad decision. You were breaking the law and it could have serious consequences for your future.  You’re lucky your principal didn’t call the police.

MICHAEL: You’re blowing this way out of proportion.

DAD: No, I’m not. I love you and I’m worried. At this point, I’m going to ground you for the rest of the month and we’ll talk more after your appointment tomorrow.